Jenna Marbles’ New Video: Harmless Comedy or Disrespecting Women?

Jenna Marbles is a hilarious internet comedian who’s posted over 100 videos, including some classics such as “How to Trick People into Thinking You’re Good Looking.”  However, her newest video is called “Things I Don’t Understand about Girls Part 2: Slut Edition.” 

Jenna defines “sluts” as women who sleep with a lot of men, especially men they don’t know.  She says that sluts don’t respect themselves or their bodies.  While she does make some good points about safety (don’t get STIs) and preventing sexual assault (intervene if a girl looks drunk and confused), she’s pretty anti-slut.  To Jenna Marbles, sluts make bad choices.  Jenna claims monogamy is much more fulfilling and that women have more enjoyable sex with someone they have a relationship with.  This assumption bothered me…..something didn’t seem right, but what??  Then I discovered this video by sex educator Laci Green.

Laci Green argues that Jenna echoes beliefs that our culture has had for generations—that women shouldn’t be sexual.  While women have made some advances, they are in no way equal to men or free to make their own sexual decisions.  Laci says that Jenna is “slut-shaming,” aka disrespecting certain women society labels as “sluts.”  “Sluts” are just women who express their sexuality differently than society wants them to.  Laci thinkgs disrespecting sluts is disrespecting women, and their ability to choose who they want to have sex with.

So what do y’all think?  Is Jenna’s video good advice for women seeking happiness, or is she disrespecting women’s decision-making abilities?  Post in the comments!
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- Lauren Dever

A Open Letter from an F&M Feminist

To the Women of F&M,

Let’s be honest: we can’t all be “besties.” But we do have a responsibility to ensure the safety of each of woman of campus. But every weekend, we, the women of F&M, are not meeting this responsibility. One in four women will experience sexual assault by the time they graduate college. You may not like that girl or may not even know her, but her safety should be every F&M woman’s concern. 

Like on most college campuses, the unknown man in the black trench coat crouching behind the bushes rarely perpetrates sexual assault. Rather it is our acquaintances, friends, or significant others who ignore our pleas and our wishes. It can happen in the dorms, in a party, in the local bar. However, as terrifying as this reality is, the women of F&M have powerful allies in protecting themselves: each other. We can make sure that every woman comes home safe, by simply intervening if we see something odd or potentially dangerous.

Now, it’s my turn to be honest. Although the statistic for sexual assault is one in four, we never act like sexual assault or rape happens here on our campus. Why? Is it because of the F&M bubble? Is it because talking about sexual assault is awkward, embarrassing, and frightening? Or, is it simply because we don’t know? I suspect it is a combination of the three, worsened by one observation. F&M women don’t seem to care enough about one another to abandon silence and speak up!

What does “something odd” look like? It can be a young woman sitting alone on a couch, too intoxicated to stay at the party. It can be a couple in the corner of a room who don’t seem to look all that ‘into each other.’ It can even be the young woman at the bar who gets left behind. In each of these situations, the women of F&M have power beyond imagination. We can help this young woman get home safety, by separating her from the situation with a simple “Come to the bathroom with me?” There are other variations of phrases, but an intervention can change the course of a night. 

So what happens if this particular young woman is fine or you misread the situation? Nothing. Both you and she move on with your night. However, the next morning, she might remember your intervention, your worry, and your concern for a stranger, and she might eventually do the same for another woman. It may be a cliché, but she can “pass it forward” and help ensure the safety of all women here at F&M.

I mentioned earlier, that here at F&M, silence is easier when the subject of sexual assault arises. Angie Epifano, a rape survivor from Amherst College writes that for victims and survivors of sexual assault, “Silence has the rusty taste of shame.” Epifano believes that it was her own personal shame regarding her assault that impeded her from talking.

Here at F&M, we do not need to feel shame. F&M’s women are passionate, intelligent, and articulate leaders. Others can’t shame us into silence. If someone tries to embarrass you for intervening in a situation that looks potentially dangerous, do not allow him or her to stop you from doing what is right for our community. It may be easier to stay silent and not draw attention to yourself, but why abandon a fellow woman if they need your help? “The rusty taste of shame” has no place here on this campus.

This weekend, be aware of your surroundings and your fellow women. If you see or hear something that just doesn’t seem right, act.  In one weekend, we can change women’s experience here at F&M. We can have a better, safer, more fun weekend.  

Michelle Carroll

F&M Senior